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Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 12:10 AM
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My youngest son told me he wanted to have kids in his early 20’s so they would have grandparents alive when they were in high school. I’m 50 and have a 13 and 16 year old. Most parents of the kids my sons play ball with are quite a bit younger than me. Many people my age are grandparents. How old are you and how old is your youngest child?
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 12:21 AM
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Biscuit
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I’m 52 and the youngest is 23
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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#9187472
02/17/25 12:22 AM
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Chickenman
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I'm 46 with a 9.5 year old. I feel pretty young though.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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#9187476
02/17/25 12:31 AM
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Had my first child when I was 42, last one at 44. I was 60 years young when my first child graduated from high school.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 12:33 AM
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KRoyal
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40 and my 1 and only child is 6. I feel very young and youthful. If I ever feel like slowing down Colt keeps me even younger. I coach everything he has ever done besides Jiu Jitsu. A lot of the parents on my son’s teams are younger than us but my wife and I blend in we both look very young. If it weren’t for my gray’s in my beard I’d probably look 20 still.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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#9187479
02/17/25 12:34 AM
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lil_red_ryder
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45 and my youngest is 22. Have a 7, 4 and few days old grandkids too.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 12:36 AM
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I was a parent at 21 and a grandparent at 53. Now I’m a step-GGP at 77. I think I got the math right. The GD we just married off is planning to start having kids quick, which pleases me.
Many years ago I had a business lunch with a guy that was just about to be a dad again. He was 60. His pregnant secretary was 25. His wife took him to the cleaners for about 25 Mil, he said. He was in that “Oh, my God, what have I done” mood. Had to sell his jet, poor fellow.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 12:37 AM
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txtrophy85
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Few months shy of 40 and have a 11,17 & 19 year old. He will turn 20 a month before I turn 40.
It’s a little different, as you kinda grow up with your kids as opposed to when you’re older.
Can’t say which way is better, I have friends I went to high school with still having babies. That would be a hard pass for me at this point.
The argument for having kids when you’re older as opposed to your early 20’s is you can concentrate on riskier career moves in your 20’s as opposed to if you have a child. You can also experience more if your child free in theory.
I told my kids don’t have children till your late 20’s early 30’s
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 12:38 AM
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Almost 65. Our kids are 44 & 38 born to parents in their 20's. Blessed to have 3 grandchildren now the oldest will be 18 later this year.
Im glad we had them young.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:00 AM
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ducknbass
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45 with an 11 and 9 year old. I wish I’d had kids younger but just wasn’t in the cards for me. I do hope my girls don’t have to wait as long as I or I’ll be too old to spoil them at best.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:03 AM
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onlysmith&wesson
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Few months shy of 40 and have a 11,17 & 19 year old. He will turn 20 a month before I turn 40.
It’s a little different, as you kinda grow up with your kids as opposed to when you’re older.
Can’t say which way is better, I have friends I went to high school with still having babies. That would be a hard pass for me at this point.
The argument for having kids when you’re older as opposed to your early 20’s is you can concentrate on riskier career moves in your 20’s as opposed to if you have a child. You can also experience more if your child free in theory.
I told my kids don’t have children till your late 20’s early 30’s You got an early start. We had my oldest when I was 23, my youngest when I was 30. My oldest daughter had our first grandchild her first year out of college. I've enjoyed my grand kids and glad I'm young enough to hunt, fish, ski and enjoy sports with them. My grand parents were ancient and their favorite activity was having us do chores for them. ![[Linked Image]](https://texashuntingforum.com/forum/pics/userpics/2025/02/full-53199-445538-img_3529.jpg) I'm 62, 16 year old grand daughter here at Christmas. We're skiing next month.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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#9187497
02/17/25 01:04 AM
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texasag93
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I am 54.
Son 19.
Daughter 12.
I am the older parent when we go to functions. I wanted kids earlier but it was not in the cards.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:09 AM
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68rustbucket
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My son was born when I was 31. He’s now 34, and I’m an old grandparent to 2 boys 5 and 7.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:12 AM
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scalebuster
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Few months shy of 40 and have a 11,17 & 19 year old. He will turn 20 a month before I turn 40.
It’s a little different, as you kinda grow up with your kids as opposed to when you’re older.
Can’t say which way is better, I have friends I went to high school with still having babies. That would be a hard pass for me at this point.
The argument for having kids when you’re older as opposed to your early 20’s is you can concentrate on riskier career moves in your 20’s as opposed to if you have a child. You can also experience more if your child free in theory.
I told my kids don’t have children till your late 20’s early 30’s Did you have your kids that young or adopt them?
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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#9187502
02/17/25 01:15 AM
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J.G.
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I'm 44, daughter is 16.
She was born when I was 28.
I was born when my dad was 27.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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#9187503
02/17/25 01:15 AM
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Few months shy of 40 and have a 11,17 & 19 year old. He will turn 20 a month before I turn 40.
It’s a little different, as you kinda grow up with your kids as opposed to when you’re older.
Can’t say which way is better, I have friends I went to high school with still having babies. That would be a hard pass for me at this point.
The argument for having kids when you’re older as opposed to your early 20’s is you can concentrate on riskier career moves in your 20’s as opposed to if you have a child. You can also experience more if your child free in theory.
I told my kids don’t have children till your late 20’s early 30’s You got an early start. We had my oldest when I was 23, my youngest when I was 30. My oldest daughter had our first grandchild her first year out of college. I've enjoyed my grand kids and glad I'm young enough to hunt, fish, ski and enjoy sports with them. My grand parents were ancient and their favorite activity was having us do chores for them. ![[Linked Image]](https://texashuntingforum.com/forum/pics/userpics/2025/02/full-53199-445538-img_3529.jpg) I'm 62, 16 year old grand daughter here at Christmas. We're skiing next month. Looking good sir 💪
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:19 AM
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:26 AM
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NORML as can be
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I'll be 66 this year kids are 45 & 43
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:26 AM
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redchevy
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I’m 38 and have a 6 and 10 year old. If I could go back and meet my wife sooner I’d have had kids sooner. Men I. My family don’t stick around the longest and I’d like to be here for my kids and grands as much as possible someday hopefully!
It's hell eatin em live
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:28 AM
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BayouGuy
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My wife and I turned 80 last year. Three kids. Our oldest is 58 and our youngest great granddaughter is six. Kids, grandkids and great grandkids are all fun.
If you can't laugh at yourself, give me a call. I'll gladly laugh at you. "I keep trying to see Nancy Pelosi's and Chuck Schumer's point of view, but I can't seem to get my head that far up my [censored]." Senator John Kennedy, Louisiana
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:28 AM
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TxAggie10
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37. Youngest daughter is 10 months old! Other daughter is 4.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:34 AM
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Old Rabbit
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I turned 45 a few days before my daughter turned 10, now she is 33 and I am 68. My grandkids from my adopted boys who are 5 years older than her are, 2, 3, 5 & 6.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:36 AM
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LonestarCobra
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I’m 51 and my one kid is 21. He missed being born on my b-day by less than an hour.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:47 AM
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40 and he’s 5.
We waited, wanted to be established in our careers and not have to worry about money.
Friend of mine is 64, he has a new born.
One of my best friends was born when his mom was 71 and dad was 89.
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Re: Being An Old Parent
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02/17/25 01:53 AM
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40 and he’s 5.
We waited, wanted to be established in our careers and not have to worry about money.
Friend of mine is 64, he has a new born.
One of my best friends was born when his mom was 71 and dad was 89. She probably thought at 71 all the risk had passed them by
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