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Painful, unbelievably so
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11/03/20 08:20 PM
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aerangis
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Saturday evening, at 5:41pm, I sat alone beside my mother on her bedside, held her hand, and looked upon her face as she died. I was very close to my mother, a momma's boy. I spoke to her all the time and never imagined what it would be like to not hear her voice again. I can honestly say I've never felt so much pain in my life.
Experiences like that made me realize long ago the wastefulness of finding offense in the actions of another. And the importance of finding faith in God and seeing the good in others. Without it, we are lost.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035958
11/03/20 08:22 PM
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S.A. hunter
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035959
11/03/20 08:23 PM
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skinnerback
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I am sorry for your loss, Sir. It hurts losing your Mother. May she rest in peace.
I agree with your statement, and I believe in God. You will see her again, just as I will see my parents again someday.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035960
11/03/20 08:23 PM
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Guy
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Damn, sorry to hear this. My sincere condolences sir.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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11/03/20 08:24 PM
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redhaze
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035966
11/03/20 08:25 PM
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bigbob_ftw
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Praying for peace. lot's of us have been there too. it will get better.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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11/03/20 08:27 PM
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bill oxner
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Quail hunting is like walking into, and out of a beautiful painting all day long. Gene Hill
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035977
11/03/20 08:30 PM
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Grizz
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my mother 24 years ago and I still think about her all the time. It doesn't feel like it right now, but the pain does subside over time even though we never stop missing them.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035981
11/03/20 08:32 PM
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SnakeWrangler
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Prayers for your loss. I know your pain. 18 years ago I was in the hospital room with my mom when she passed. We were also very close. She was 55....my age now. Sobering....cancer sucks. I miss her every day.
I pray fond memories eases your pain....
I believe in science and I’m an insufferable [censored] Actually, BBC is pretty damn good "You Cannot Simultaneously Be Politically Correct And Intellectually Honest!"
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035986
11/03/20 08:35 PM
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Ranch Dawg
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THE ROAD GOES ON FOREVER AND THE PARTY NEVER ENDS.
F##K YOU JOE BIDEN !!!!! F##K YOU KH !!!!!!
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035987
11/03/20 08:35 PM
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Greg
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Real sorry to hear that. .gif)
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035988
11/03/20 08:36 PM
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reeltexan
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Both my parents are gone. My father passed in 1981, my mother - four years ago. I still miss them both.
Prayers up.
![[Linked Image]](https://i.postimg.cc/KjZZqFj8/point-with-bird.jpg) "If we ever forget that we are One Nation Under God, then we will be a nation gone under." Ronald Reagan
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035992
11/03/20 08:38 PM
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hook_n_line
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Yep. If you don't know God everything will piss you off. My grandma told me forgive and forget and if you have to go somewhere and start over to forget it's okay too but forgiveness is key. Don't burden your life with heavy baggage that others can't carry and try to throw on your back, you can weight yourself down enough by yourself but you have to learn what to hold on to and what to let go of both spiritually and materialistically.
Sometimes it's hard being me! But somebody has to do it.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8035995
11/03/20 08:41 PM
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ducknbass
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I'm a few days from being 4 years in. You'll never be the same. The new normal it's just a strange feeling.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036003
11/03/20 08:44 PM
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Mike W
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Sorry for your loss. .gif)
This cannot be fixed at the voting booth.. Wake Up You Morons!
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036010
11/03/20 08:47 PM
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jdk1985
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I'm only 35. I was 15 when my dad died. I wasn't there. I'm not looking forward to when it is my mom's time to depart.
Grace and peace, JDK
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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11/03/20 08:50 PM
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GUTIT
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Thoughts and prayers to you Sir.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036019
11/03/20 08:51 PM
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East
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036020
11/03/20 08:52 PM
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texasag93
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Sorry for your loss.
May she rest in peace.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036028
11/03/20 09:02 PM
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RayB
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Sorry, mom's are very special people
There is time, and you must take it, to lay your hand on your dog's head as you walk past him lying on the floor or on his settle, time to talk with him, to remember with him, time to please him, time you can't buy back once he's gone" GBE
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036029
11/03/20 09:02 PM
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HWY72
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Condolences for your loss. Sounds like she did a great job of raising a son. .gif)
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036031
11/03/20 09:03 PM
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Pope&Young
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Prayers for such a big loss .gif)
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036052
11/03/20 09:18 PM
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Buzzsaw
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My Mom died in 1979, she was 57, sucked !!!
So sorry for your loss, prayers for her
SPACE FOR RENT
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036061
11/03/20 09:21 PM
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BigPig
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Saturday evening, at 5:41pm, I sat alone beside my mother on her bedside, held her hand, and looked upon her face as she died. I was very close to my mother, a momma's boy. I spoke to her all the time and never imagined what it would be like to not hear her voice again. I can honestly say I've never felt so much pain in my life.
Experiences like that made me realize long ago the wastefulness of finding offense in the actions of another. And the importance of finding faith in God and seeing the good in others. Without it, we are lost. Sorry for your loss. Parents, especially the ones we are close to are a very hard loss. I watched my dad battle cancer for 2.5 years, knowing the entire time it would be fatal. He moved in with us for 2 years and died in hospice in our house. You would think 2.5 years of knowing the inevitable is coming would prepare someone, but I called like a baby at his funeral. He was my hunting buddy for 20+ years, the woods just haven’t been the same without him.
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Re: Painful, unbelievably so
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#8036069
11/03/20 09:24 PM
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spacejunkie
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