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Sadly..........
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09/02/14 06:14 PM
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kwrhuntinglab
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For the first time in 25 years I missed the opener. I haven't even bought a hunting license yet. Don't even feel the energy to go and hunt. Guess that's what going through a divorce will do to you.
Hope you others had a great time and enjoyed.
Time is not wasted if you spend it with the ones you love.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284243
09/02/14 06:21 PM
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Nogalus Prairie
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Dang. Hope your "want to" kicks back in soon. It's great therapy as you know. Hang in there.
I learned long ago you can't reason someone out of something they don't reason themselves into.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284254
09/02/14 06:28 PM
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TexasLandAgent
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Hang in ther kwrhuntinglab. Been there. A lot of us have. It'll come back to ya, just gotta ride out the storm. Sandy beaches and cold cervezas are on the horizon.
And theres another opening day next year.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284267
09/02/14 06:34 PM
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Ben Lilly
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congratulations on your loss
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284269
09/02/14 06:37 PM
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Slow Drifter
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Hang in there, it'll get better.
"I have no idea what WW-III will be fought with, but WW-IV will be fought with sticks and stones." A. Einstein
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: Ben Lilly]
#5284283
09/02/14 06:50 PM
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bobcat1
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congratulations on your loss too soon maybe
Bobby Barnett
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284295
09/02/14 06:57 PM
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txshntr
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Damn bud, hate that for you. Haven't had to deal with it, but seems like last year there was something in the water around here. From the buddies I have that dealt with it, seems to take a bit to get your world turned right-side-up, and best way seems to keep on keeping on. Hunting is my peaceful place and can be good therapy. Hope you get to feeling "normal" soon 
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284359
09/02/14 07:35 PM
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kwrhuntinglab
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19 years......but it was my choice. Just sucks having a 6yr old kid that doesn't understand why daddy moved out. Guess that really took a toll on me...Hopefully I will get it back.
Time is not wasted if you spend it with the ones you love.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284377
09/02/14 07:49 PM
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RossCravens
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I have been there myself...it's a [censored] situation that is tough to get through.
Keep your head up, I am sure you have heard it more than you wanted to already, but it does get better with time. When you are ready get back in the field, it's cheap therapy that does help!
Gig 'Em
Ross Cravens Class of '10
"From the outside looking in, you can't understand it. And from the inside looking out, you can't explain it."
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284384
09/02/14 07:57 PM
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beaversnipe
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Hang in there U have priorities now (kid,money,anger,money again,emotions, anger, money again)
Doves can wait, chicas cant
Last edited by beaversnipe; 09/02/14 07:59 PM.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284388
09/02/14 07:59 PM
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Drop 1
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getting a divorce was one of the best choices I ever made, and left the woman on the bow opener . So in theory I got to hunt get divorced and watch football all in the same day. It gets better like they all say but don't go to drinkin too much, it'll make it worse. I now am engaged to the woman of my dreams, never had an ill spoken word to one another, she cooks, cleans hunts and puts up with nascar and football, and the best part is that she don't lick her plate when shes done eating. and she buys my beer.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284395
09/02/14 08:01 PM
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beaversnipe
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No relationship is perfect. Its all about communication (although i oppose over communication) and tolerance
Pastor beaver
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284411
09/02/14 08:08 PM
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Bilbo Baggins
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Drop 1, does she have a sister?
Bilbo Baggins
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284413
09/02/14 08:09 PM
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RossCravens
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One piece of advice that was given to me by a wise man while I was going through my divorce. He had been through one as well and here is what he had to say: "We always pick 'em better the second time around"
It has always stuck with me and I agree with him now that I am where I am at....it looks like Drop 1 does as well.
Gig 'Em
Ross Cravens Class of '10
"From the outside looking in, you can't understand it. And from the inside looking out, you can't explain it."
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284637
09/02/14 10:11 PM
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kwrhuntinglab
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Ya'll do realize the divorce rate is higher the second time around. Third time is a charm according to statistics....
Time is not wasted if you spend it with the ones you love.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284640
09/02/14 10:16 PM
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udamdan
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For the first time in 25 years I missed the opener. I haven't even bought a hunting license yet. Don't even feel the energy to go and hunt. Guess that's what going through a divorce will do to you.
Hope you others had a great time and enjoyed. That's one of the reasons my 1st wife divorced me ,but I still did it Before & After Bro 
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284783
09/02/14 11:34 PM
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Adam O
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Sorry dude. Hang in there.
Adam...KCCO
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5284827
09/02/14 11:51 PM
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unclebubba
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kwrhuntinglab, I feel for you. I am in the same boat. Middle of divorce, 6 year old boy, no licence yet, no opening dove hunt. That being said, I feel that hunting for you and I will be very therapeutic. I have a squirrel hunt/deer scouting trip planned for next weekend with my son, and I have been doing a lot more fishing this year than normal. It even helps to just walk down to the local pond and wet a line for a half hour. PM me if you ever want to vent.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: Nogalus Prairie]
#5284893
09/03/14 12:22 AM
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Cody Malone
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Dang. Hope your "want to" kicks back in soon. It's great therapy as you know. Hang in there.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5294053
09/08/14 11:54 AM
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kwrhuntinglab
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Thnaks guys.....I appreciate it.
Time is not wasted if you spend it with the ones you love.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5294080
09/08/14 12:18 PM
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hook_n_line
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It gets better. when i split from my ex-wife I went and got myself a dog and 20acres 2 miles from my nearest neaighbor. All my old buddies came to celebrate. Divorce wasn't easy but sometimes it eases your pain.
Sometimes it's hard being me! But somebody has to do it.
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: Cody Malone]
#5294218
09/08/14 01:43 PM
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TxDuck24
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Dang. Hope your "want to" kicks back in soon. It's great therapy as you know. Hang in there. X3
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: RossCravens]
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09/08/14 01:51 PM
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twospeed29
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I have been there myself...it's a [censored] situation that is tough to get through.
Keep your head up, I am sure you have heard it more than you wanted to already, but it does get better with time. When you are ready get back in the field, it's cheap therapy that does help! "cheap" 
I got two speeds. Goin fast,and haulin [censored]
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Re: Sadly..........
[Re: kwrhuntinglab]
#5294492
09/08/14 03:48 PM
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Quacker Attacker
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Sorry to hear things didn't last "forever". Mine lasted 30 years before the split and then a few months later, I lost my free dove hunting place. The "gotta get out into the field" feeling definitely gets diminished while going thru something like that. Haven't found a place to bust dove since....gggrrr. Good luck to you brother.
Why the hell should I have to press 1 for English!!??
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