My wife likes sweet baby rays. I hate it. It’s sweet and thick.
I like the flavor of SBR, but it's too thick for me
I've gotten lazy in making my own sauce ... but once my wife gets a bottle of SBR down to about 1/2 empty, I will then take it and ramp it back up to a less sweet, thinner sauce by adding some apple cider vinegar, lime juice, orange juice and a splash of hot sauce, maybe a little yellow mustard, black pepper as well.
I grew up learning (1960s-1980s) from my dad and a bunch of his buddies that did catering gigs around our local area for family reunions, annual VFD/Sherriff's office appreciation dinners, masonic lodge, fiddler's contests, community gatherings, etc. where we used 2' x 8' open top pits (they had probably 10-12 pits) with a big central fire going to keep feeding the coals to the pits using a shovel. They used a mop sauce that was basically an old German recipe from my mother's family that consisted of oil, vinegar, squeezed lemons, oranges (rinds included), Worcestershire sauce, salt, pepper, onion & garlic powder (they actually used fresh chopped onion & smashed garlic) that hung over the side of the big fire between mop cycles. This kept the meat moist and likely kept the flies off while smoking. Once we were getting close to done with the cooking, they would stain and dump in tomato sauce and a little brown sugar to create a thinner dipping sauce that was only a little sweet. I am probably leaving something out as this was over 40 years ago that I last helped with a big cook.
they also did catfish fries for crowds as well from trotline caught fish, homemade hushpuppies and hand cut fries in large propane (likely butane back then) cookers, rotating each cooker with fish, then hushpuppies and then fries to keep the grease clean.
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