If your looking at 1911s I would highly recommend 9mm. A pleasure to shoot for you and your wife.
This is where I'm looking...^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Kimber KHX Custom 9mm Pistol 8 Round Magazine 3000359-$1128 (on order).
Kimber 1911 Custom TLE/RL II TFS (Threaded For Suppression) 9mm (2016) 3200339-$1053.60 (in stock).
Sig Sauer P210 9mm 5" Target Blk SAO Adjustable Sights Walnut Grips (2) 8rd magazines 210A-9-TGT-$1449.99 (in stock).
Sig Sauer P320, 9MM, 5IN, X-SERIES, BLK, STRIKER, FIBER OPT FRONT W/ ADJ REAR, MODULAR POLY X GRIP, (4) 21RD STEEL MAG, RAIL [320X5-9-BAS]-$849.99 (in stock).
Sig Sauer 1911-FULL-SIZE MAX, Custom Competition, Rev 2-Tone, Fiber Optic Front / Adj Rear, ICE Magwell, Wilson Mag, G-10, Max Logo-$1399.99 (in stock).
a GREAT budget option is the tricked out CANIK 9mm striker fire, great reviews
Next up if you can swing the $$$ I LOVE the P=320 X-5