That's what daughter #3 calls her brother-in-law. This worm is 30 something and has never held a job for more than a couple of months, many of those jobs were only part time. A real loser who now is living with and mooching off her and her husband and kids. But, I love the name, fits him perfectly.

She needs to give him a dead line to be out and when it comes he can sleep in a box, it aint her problem

My daughter wouldn't put up with that it would be unbearable for my SIL

I gotta a 40+ something living with Mummy and Daddy next door. Same deal. Tons of bad decisions by him and his parents. Some of their stupid decisions effect the whole end of this street. And we're all supposed to adapt because he's so special.

This guy is less than a zero. When daughter #3 got married, he was there and I already had pegged him as a loser. Kinda like Wally from Leave it to Beaver. Everybody got all scandalized when I looked him right in the eye across the table and loudly told him to get a job. The parents also live in the area after the dad when bankrupt in Ohio, but the loser won't move back in with them.

I told daughter they ought to move his azz into one of the chicken houses since they are temperature controlled. It ain't gonna have a happy ending, I'm almost positive.

I don’t think so. Go make a scene. Sounds like someone needs to

What in my whole wife world.

One of my best friend has a brother like that. 30 years old, been fired from every job he’s ever had within a matter of weeks, lives off his family, refuses to fend for himself.

It’s really sad.

Way past time for some tough love.

Big fat no…kids or relatives get a little help but must fend for themselves at the end of the day.

I'd drive him to San Francisco and drop him off under an overpass.

I think we all have one of those in our family, mines a 50 year old nephew.

These are the types that believe the government will take care of them and fall for the dangled carrot.

Neighbors had a party last weekend, younger couple just moved in. They are nice. Conversation fired up about last years freeze. They went on and in about the power grid. I was quiet, they asked me my thoughts.
I promptly told them, this was a once in a lifetime storm and I don’t rely on government in moment of crises. Gotta take care of yourself or you will be let down.

I don’t, we all are adults and take care of ourselves.

After I graduated from college, I lost my way. I ended up waiting tables and living at my parents house for a few months.

I ran into a girl that I met in college. I realized I needed to get my rudder in the water and get going. We got married and It took a couple of years, but I found a career and got going.

I always had at least one job during that time, but a good woman will get you going in the right direction.

Yep we all have one

And probably blames the world around him for his own suckability.

Yep the ole, "It's their fault"

glad to hear you got it going in the right direction.

I thought this was another post about TU

Or TCU

Not everyone.

Worked with a guy and he had a deadbeat son, but him and his wife were enablers bailing him out of every bad decision he made. Now he's mid 40's and has his dream job delivering pizzas for dominos WTF??

lol