This.
And.

Yuup, If she can't find what flips that switch in her mind she'll always be searching sometimes Cannabis is the answer if not the cure Good luck..

Send her my way.

Being somewhat joking, binge watch some ID shows on tv. That will cure what you have. LOL

But seriously, here is the secret. Most men cannot do this one thing. We won’t discuss why they can’t, but more than likely this is what is ailing you now.

Complete and total honesty. Explain what you want, how you want your life to be, how you are going to live your life. If you want to date on the side, complete and absolute honesty. If you are not going to tolerate the craziness, complete and totally honest. Lay it out up front. Then she has to decide. She is responsible. She cannot expect you to carry the burden. If you do this, and are completely honest, regardless of outcome, then your decision is quiet simple. And, if at that point you still go forward betraying what you honestly stated how your life was going to be lived, well that’s on you and see you on the ID channel soon.

Train Station.

Well said. Train to Fulshear.

GTHO...ASAP !
Life is too short for such BS.

I'm going to disagree with everyone here and say stick with it. It gets dull around here and that sounds like a entertaining situation. For us at least

Run, as fast as you can and never look back.

Just walk away
Just say goodbye
Don't turn around now
You may see me cry
I mustn't fall apart
Or show my broken heart
Or the love I feel for you

So walk away
Close the door
And let my life be as it was before
I'll never never know
Just how I let you go
There's nothing left to say
Just walk away

A wise man once told me in reference to women “I can do bad on my own, I don’t need their help”.

Basically if they’re not contributing to your life then they’re taking away from it. When your heart gives out from stress or your bank account gives out from giving, you’ll know you made the wrong choice.

Only you can answer the question, is she a plus or a minus.


Your first instinct is right.

Sounds like an unhealthy co-dependent relationship to me.

The “wants me with her every minute “ and hanging out at work with her is something a pair of high schoolers would do.

After three months and she is already showing her crazy side it’s only going to get worse not better. I would bounce. I get the whirlwind romance as I have been in one myself but it was nothing like you described. No relationship is perfect and most of them usually come with some challenges but basically, you are saying “ this girl is crazy and clingy but she looks good so I’m trying to tolerate it “.


Truth is...it’s easy to meet girls. Finding another 32 year old probably won’t be that tough, especially with tools like tinder, bumble, etc. or even good old Facebook.


My advise is to get a few hobbies and things that YOU are into and not let a female fill that void. And when you find a girl make sure she has things going on in her life and has a self worth that is not centered on her boyfriend

My first wife was a crazy bi-polar nutcase. RUN FAST you still have time...

This is the best it will ever be. This is your honeymoon period. She is putting her best foot forward. The eruptions will only get worse and more frequent the more she realizes you are trapped. If you are concerned now just wait. Look at the bright side though. You can always come here for free legal advise later.

Been there done that & got the t-shirt which she took off with too! Run like the wind.....

Ready,
............Set
..................Go!
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This isn't up for debate in my opinion, get the hell out now! I've been down this road like others have said & it sucks to the nth degree.

Lol I knew what the responses would be like. Here a little more.

The trips, travel and money i don't care about as its all stuff i want to do myself. It's great to have someone who wants to go with.me. I'd go on more trips but she has to work. She staterted off offering to pay for half but I don't have a problem paying so its not an issue.

I'm not just holding onto her for her looks. When she isn't flipping out, she makes me very happy, lol. Happier than i ever was in my 19 year marriage. Yes she is hot and the sex is often and amazing but thats little to do with it as like stated, online dating makes sex readily available. Meaningless sex has never been something I've been interested in though.

As for finding another 32 yo, no thanks, if this doesn't work out I'm sticking closer to my age, its hard to keep up but I'm enjoying it none the less.

I really do want this to work out. I'm trying. Being retired at 42 is boring as he'll. I have hobbies I got bored of. I go to the gym a lot, metal detected, collected baseball cards, scuba dived, fished, hunted, have my farm, but got bored.with all of them. She is my new hobby, lol. If it ends either by her or me, ill have had a hell of a time. Definitely has shaken up my life from the rut, lol.

Now that’s funny!

My view is that if you can get the milk without buying the cow, do so. Don’t buy the cow...

I was about to say something similar, but more tactfully.

This will be a great thread by midnight!!

That’s funny!