Many documents state that if either spouse move a certain number miles, then moving spouse carries responsibility of transportation on court ordered visits. So if she moves she could have to do major traveling. But if you signed off on it, then may not work out that way.

No complaints. Glad she's gone and who needed all that money anyway.

My ex had a thing where she could sway her hips when she danced and it would drive you crazy, sweet seduction is what some would call that. She broke up with me because when she wanted to hold hands at the football game I was wearing gloves and didn't barehand her hand...crazy girl broke up over that...

Of course that was 6th grade. Lol

Some of you have some serious ex issues you gotta deal with, I had to think who my last ex was. Now my brother, he has a nasty one for his current/ex/current/soon to be ex....sounds exactly like what a lot of you on this thread are dealing with or have dealt with.

I'm not following here what makes her a bad person or deserving of trespassing charges?

I agree with what the others have said. Based on what you've written, you need to nip this in the immediately. If not, get ready to spend a lot of time in the car driving to see your kids 3 counties away. Maybe she's being honest and she just needs two or three weeks to work out things with the late-husbands in-laws. Or maybe, she is asking for two or three weeks because in one week she plans to move in with her sisters three counties away. As you said, she has no job and was basically living off the late husband. If she is getting pressure from the late husbands family and they are fighting over the estate, she may move because they are going to break up the estate and she will have no other place to live. She may move because she has no income to pay her bills and plans to live off the sisters. She may move because she has no family where you currently live and needs the help of her sisters to raise your kids. Based on what you have written, it doesn't sound like she has anything holding her where you currently live and eventually, she is going to move back with the sisters. So even if things work out today, you may be right back in this place a year from now.


As far as the title of the thread is concerned, my slu@ ex was a ladder climbing b!@#$ who just wanted to go out to the hip places, party every night till the bars closed and spend money like it grew on trees. I dang near worked myself to death to put her through college and fund her lifestyle. I thank God almost every day that we didn't have kids. We split and she took 1/2 the money from our bank accounts, 1/2 the proceeds from the sale of the house, the washer/dryer/refrigerator and all the furniture except my dresser, nightstand and a ratty old couch. Anytime I pushed back, she came at me with "you'll give me this or I'll take 1/2 your 401k and pension as well." Given the value of my 401K/pension, I wasn't going to fight over a $150 table or a $200 TV. Karma is a b!@# though. She moved in with the "friend" she was seeing, and within a year, the fridge died, the washer died and the house they rented had a leak in the foundation and the moisture caused the wood in her bedroom furniture to warp. Meanwhile, all my new stuff was running fine. To top it all off, shortly after moving in with him, the "friend" lost his job, sat around on her couch, spent all her money and wouldn't get a new job. He also knocked her up within the year. Am I still bitter, nope. Did I literally laugh in her face when she told me she was pregnant with his kid, you bet your a$$ I did.

Sounds like you've done a good job of moving on Rich.

After two divorces, a genetic defect was discovered on a chromosome that now prevents me from ever getting married again. That’s my story and I’m stick’n to it.