As an outsider observer, it sounds as though you have a stock that doesn't fit you well. Between the excessive recoil comments and the eye relief issue, it really points me to the stock as the root problem, but let me ask you this: have you shot other magnum rifles comfortably? Are you hunting animals that really require more than a .270? I was a more-is-better guy for years and then circumstances forced me to hunt with a .243 WSSM loaded to anemic levels. You'll never guess what I discovered: with good shooting, my .243 WSSM killed just as well as my .30-06 or my 9.3x62.
I have a M70 Stainless Classic in .300 WM that's been magnaported, and the recoil is very manageable; but I find the stock to be quite comfortable ... All of these are magnaported, except for the rifle with the obvious brake. The M70 is the stainless one, second rifle from the top.
The problem is either the stock or the cartridge. If it's the stock, consider replacing it with one that fits you well. If it's the cartridge, then get a .25-06 or a .270; both are deadly. If you've really lost confidence in the rifle, sell or trade it and move on.