Winchester sx3 for soft shooting.
I agree with ^^^^ if you stick with the 12ga.
If she likes your 391 Beretta you could find one of those in a 20ga too. If I was you I'd buy her a 28ga Benelli or Beretta and use it when she doesn't
. I want one so bad I can't stand it but I've yet to find exactly what I want but I've not looked real hard. Seems like there is always somewhere else to spend 1k.